Letter to the Other Me
A letter to myself, the me who's still married, still crying in the bathroom after sex and wondering how to get better at initiating. There are some things I want her to know
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Manipulative Male Coach
Dissecting the comments from a dating and relationship coach who wants me as far away from the topic of rape as I can get.
Embracing Fear
The things I've feared, how I moved past them, and why I embrace it all now.
Dissociation & The Multiverse
Dissociation and the Multiverse: Exploring my mind in and out of abuse, and what it looks like for me now, after a couple of years spent healing and processing trauma. There's little I hide anymore. After decades masking and pretending to be someone palatable to everyone around me,
Dear Couples Counselor
The couple who sat in your office today isn’t what they seem. There’s something going on there which you can’t see. They’re not telling you the whole story. Or, there are parts of the story which you just haven’t heard. If one of them sent